Friday, 7 March 2014

We will be with those whom we Love

Love is the strongest feeling living things can have.When we love some one we want to be with him/her all the time.Suddenly time shrinks when we are with our loved ones and same time stretch out when we are without them.
Sometimes we are given those things in life which we never asked for but they are worth it.And among those things,one of the most prestigious thing is ,Allah chose us to be from the nation of Mohammad S.A.W.It is his Blessing and mercy that the Lord of the heaven and the earth made you,me and us among the Ummah of Final Prophet (PBUH).
Yet Allah didn't give us the opportunity to be among the companions of Prophet Mohammad S.A.W in this duneya, But its up to us if we chose to be from the companion of Prophet Mohammad S.A.W in heaven. Don't you want to see righteous and alley's of God ? Pious Prophets like Ibrahim A.S ,Jesus A.S and noble companions like Abu Bakr Siddique R.A ,Umar Farooq R.A and so on.How many of us want to hug Prophet Mohammad S.A.W? We couldn't chose this to happen in this world but we can struggle and strive for it. A Hadith explains it all .

"A person will be with those whom he loves" (Bukhari).

Let me tell you a true story regarding the hadith.

There was a Companion of Prophet Mohammad S.A.W ,his name was Tauban R.A ,he was a slave freed by Prophet Mohammad S.A.W .Tauban (R.A) Had lot of love for his beloved Mater(Pbuh).He would look at Mohammad S.A.W face and forgot his troubles and worries .He used to daily visit Prophet of Islam (Pbuh) and get happy to see his(Pbuh) face.Once he couldn't see Prophet Mohammad (Pbuh) for few days and when he saw him(Pbuh) after several days, instead of getting happy he become more sad. Prophet Mohammad (Pbuh) felt there is something wrong with Tauban(R.A),So He(Pbuh) asked Tauban (R.A) what is it? why are you sad Tauban?
Tauban R.A explained "Oh Prophet of Allah,You don't know what happens to me when i don't see your face even for a day,and now I'm worried that on day of Judgement you will be with Allah Ta'ala, and his righteous Prophets and pious People ,I'm afraid i will  go to hell,or even if i get lucky to go to heaven,but what I'm gonna do in heaven? how I'm gonna be happy in heaven when i cant be with you,I get sad by not seeing your face for one day,how I'm going to stay happy without it for my whole eternal life" and after this incident,few days later the following verses were revealed:

"And whoever obeys Allah and the Messenger - those will be with the ones upon whom Allah has bestowed favor of the prophets, the steadfast affirmers of truth, the martyrs and the righteous. And excellent are those as companions." 4:69

After reading those verses Tauban (R.A) got so happy and delighted.He got hope after this that he can be with Mohammad (Pbuh) .And when ever some one was reading chapter An-Nisa, He (R.A) would tell proudly,did you know the verse # 69 in chapter 4 was revealed because of me ? . Subhan Allah ! 

The Poet of east ,Allama Iqbal explained this thing in his poem "Jawab-e-Shiqwa"
 Ki Muhammed (S.A.W.) Se Wafa Tu Ne Tau Hum Tere Hain
Yeh Jahan Cheez Hai Kya, Loh-o-Qalam Tere Haintranslation (To my Muhammad be but true, And you have conquered me;

The world is nothing you will command My Pen of Destiny.)

If you love Satan or devil,or the tyrants you will be with those in hell and if you love righeous people you will be with them in Heaven.So if you Love Prophet Mohammad S.A.W  and all the Prophets of Allah and their companions then start obeying the commands of Allah and live your lifestyle the way they lived .And not only Allah will be pleased with you but he will also change the fate for you. I want to be with Prophet Mohammad S.A.W and his beloved companion Tauban R.A for whom the verse of Surah An-Nisa was revealed.May Allah forgive all of us and make us among the companions of Prophet Mohammad S.A.W in Jannah.
Ameen !

(Note: If i wrongly interpreted the hadith then do correct me. ) 

Thursday, 6 March 2014

When dreams fall apart - Get up and fight ! You're Alive!

Failure is a part of life. I know this line sounds disturbing and you resent it as much as I do but I won't erase back these words. We need to accept it, learn it for future reference and love it so much that it chokes.
Nobody likes to fail at things. Whether it’s an exam or something like a bet with a kid. You want to nail it the best way. I'm sure many of us even day dream about the impossible looking success stories. Who doesn't. It's what keeps us moving. It's what keeps us motivated and go on in this cruel unpredictable world.  Now imagine, all your motivation was taken away by one swift strike of failure. The positivity that is naturally instilled in us simply disappears, it evaporates out of your body. You're an educated person , young maybe or maybe not but quite the person who had the absolute certainty at some point in his/her life that yeaaah! I would become somebody or do something big in life. You believed it so much that even your family began to expect something big out of you. Like you're destined to do great things. So you grow up fast, plan your life well , educate yourself well , do everything upto Par but then nonsense happens. 
You're not there yet. In fact as every dawn approaches, you're quite sure you're a big failure in both the worlds. And you're going to die just like that. An ordinary person. 
How do you move on well with it then? Would it not choke you each day each night ? I find myself very disturbed when my life is imbalanced at any point and I can't stop being sad inside. The result? That sadness begins to dull me more. Because it is based on factual details. That I have failed-- when I least expected or wished it. 
Enough of this drama! I say. It's time to make a punching bag out of sorrows and hit it hard. Just smash it with your might.
You're Alive!

Say you’re alive! You're not dead. Lord Almighty is watching over you.  Strive well. Fight! Fight with the negativity like hell and never stop.

Wednesday, 5 March 2014

The Man who can't get married !

Money Money Money! Who doesn't want it? I know I do. But I don't want it in a way to abuse it. I want it to buy the things that make my life easy. Most importantly, I want it to get married. And that's the trouble.


I'm a young lad you see. Broke. Parents told me to earn if I want to get married. But Here I am, still studying. I don't like the way things turn out I mean, 

  1. you can't like a girl, 
  2. you can't fall in love 

And if you do, then oh man. you're dead. You can't get married young because you don't have stable income. I'm so jealous of all those youngsters who get married young and their family is the sponsor party. Or those Arab kids who pay their expenses from Government's pocket on being married. Wow. why don't we have those things in Pakistan?
I mean is it really necessary to get married at 30, 40 or 50????
Ugggh it's driving me insane. Why? Because it has become the biggest issue of our society. Youth is getting spoiled. Doing sins because their parents can't get them married. So they let them do sins.
That's not Islam.
So here's my open letter to the parents. (Even though I know they can't access it)

Dear Parents,My Pa and Ma

I'm high. Yes. I'm not shitting you. That's the way things are, you have to accept the fact that I have grown up and I have hormones, unlimited supply now. My religion isn't shy not to address this issue. It did give us a solution and that is to get married but You guys are not letting it happen. Why? Oh why must you tell me to control myself when you know I am created weak? Do I look like a superman here? Or a spiderman who has no signs of passion on his boring face and funny outfit? Please consider my feelings, mi-lords. I can't bear to watch my friends or cousins getting married while I have to suffice with the concept of Hooras waiting for me in the next world. :( All the girls I like end up calling me bro. All the future babies I imagine in head end up being bored. Let them have a chance of becoming real? 
Plus I can't earn just yet, because you made me pursue this big degree. So as good parents, who understand my situation, and respect my heart, and also most importantly believe in religion, please sponsor my wedding
-__- or I would soon go mad or develop some serious health problem as I can't fast 365 days a year.
So hear me , my biological parents! And let me have the chance to complete my deen. That's life above zero. A life where I am at mental and physical peace. 
Get me married, and I'll make sure you get to play with a lot of grandchildren.(after few years I mean, when I am earning on my own) 

Your lovely son (shehzada)
Peace out!